AITA: Husband doesn’t respect what I do outside of wifely duties.
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— Over35 (@Over35andup) December 7, 2022
Hon, you are his wife and you owe it to him. Make love to your husband please, whether you still love him or not. Buy him something pretty since he appears to feel emasculated. If you cannot afford to be the man, get another job because you're going to need it.
Or you can leave and let a series of men satisfy you sexually and leave you (probably). His mom was right and if you care about your family you will put your time and talent into them instead of some empty job. If you value your job (hopefully at this cost it is a career) then politely leave and let some other woman, more simple-minded than you, fill the space.